hellyeah spree

Thursday, October 22, 2009

“I feel that being in a relationship cant make new friends.” she said
I have to agree on that i guess..
But I want to ask this question back to her...
Out of 10 or more friends you have now, tell me how many of them would stand by you and give u a listening hear when you are in times of troubles. Or will they even go further den what u never expected them to do for you.
It’s not a matter of how many friends u make; it’s about finding the one special friend who would stand by u!!!And never keep anything away from u.

I knew this guy who would stand by her through thick and thin, but somehow she didn’t treat him the same way. She rather make more friends. They had a few quarrels going on after another. Poor guy, he really loves her a lot. I think she should limit herself. Most of the quarrel is about going out with new people and it include her ex too.
Talking and going out to her ex makes the guy feel insecure. In fact, every guy will feel that way.
But all she can tell the guy is “do you trust me, I know my limits ok”
The guy would have trust her and wouldn’t mind who she’s going with if their relationship were to be stable.
In the end, she called it off, reason was…. The guy’s attitude suck?

I would want to ask her this, what trigger his attitude and over-reaction???
Embarrassing her in front of his friends? He was playing around
Decides thing for her, for that I would agree with her point. He not supposed to do that.
I think she didn’t understand him yet.
But the guy believes that thing still would turn out right if they were to get back.
Cos both didn’t understand each other function
The guy still contact and chat with her
So I hope they get their thing back on track
Cos I can’t bear seeing him in this situation he’s at now…

To the girl, treasure him, open up to him don keep things by urself. You wants him to change, den be the one to change him
To the guy, you should give her time let her understand you more first

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